Suspecting your boyfriend is cheating on you is a very big accusation to make. If he’s really good looking and attracts the attention of a lot of other women, then it could just be your insecurities flaring up.
It’s only natural to want to be the only woman in your boyfriends life. So before you can recognize the signs of a cheating boyfriend, decide right now if your assumptions are worth ending your relationship.
No guy ever wants to be confronted by his girlfriend of cheating. Any guy that does get confronted will immediately assume that there is no trust and will look at the relationship in a totally different negative light.
You are literally going to be putting your relationship on the line. So before you mention anything to your guy, make sure these 10 clear
signs your boyfriend is cheating are really happening or if your imagination is playing games with you.
signs your boyfriend is cheating are really happening or if your imagination is playing games with you.
1- He’s Unavailable:
When a guy is off cheating, he does not want to be bothered by anyone, especially his unsuspecting girlfriend. He’ll start to leave his phone off or avoid your calls and texts all together.
When a guy is off cheating, he does not want to be bothered by anyone, especially his unsuspecting girlfriend. He’ll start to leave his phone off or avoid your calls and texts all together.
2- He Is Using His Phone A Lot More (And Not For You):
If he suddenly starts texting more often, but he still takes forever to reply to you… that may be a sign that he’s cheating. It doesn’t mean he is definitely cheating on you. He could just be having an important conversation
If he suddenly starts texting more often, but he still takes forever to reply to you… that may be a sign that he’s cheating. It doesn’t mean he is definitely cheating on you. He could just be having an important conversation
3- He stops noticing You:
You could probably wear a bag over your head and he wouldn’t notice. Even when he ‘makes an effort’ to be with you, he doesn’t really notice you.
You could probably wear a bag over your head and he wouldn’t notice. Even when he ‘makes an effort’ to be with you, he doesn’t really notice you.
4- He Lashes Out At You:
If your guy starts arguments with you, especially if it’s over something simple, he could be looking for an excuse to get away from you and towards someone else
If your guy starts arguments with you, especially if it’s over something simple, he could be looking for an excuse to get away from you and towards someone else
5- He suddenly needs a lot of privacy:
To take time for one's self is normal. But when it's out of the normal pattern — or is more and more frequent — it's a sign that something else is going on. Going into work early, leaving late, getting off the phone suddenly, and taking lots of private calls from a "relative" (mom, sister, someone untraceable) are also red flags.
To take time for one's self is normal. But when it's out of the normal pattern — or is more and more frequent — it's a sign that something else is going on. Going into work early, leaving late, getting off the phone suddenly, and taking lots of private calls from a "relative" (mom, sister, someone untraceable) are also red flags.
6- He's secretive with his technology.
Technology is now smarter and affairs have gone high-tech. A new password on his cell phone or computer, a change of password at your bank or cell phone company, or cell phones being "left in the car" were once valid signs of infidelity.
Technology is now smarter and affairs have gone high-tech. A new password on his cell phone or computer, a change of password at your bank or cell phone company, or cell phones being "left in the car" were once valid signs of infidelity.
But now, cheaters fly under the radar by using technology to do their communication dirty work. Apps exist that allow text messages, online chat sessions and pictures to last for a certain amount of time (and then disappear). Pay attention to new email accounts and new apps being used on his cell phone.
7- He Avoids Getting Close To You:
If you notice that your guy suddenly avoids intimacy with you (or stops entirely), that’s a huge red flag. Some men who fear intimacy will cheat to feel like they still have power over their sex life, and some men cheat simply because they want someone “young and new”.
If you notice that your guy suddenly avoids intimacy with you (or stops entirely), that’s a huge red flag. Some men who fear intimacy will cheat to feel like they still have power over their sex life, and some men cheat simply because they want someone “young and new”.
8- His accusations that you’re jealous and/or crazy:
Attack is a cheater’s best form of defence. These are classic ploys for making you doubt yourself. Unless you are a habitually jealous person, you need to trust your gut.
Attack is a cheater’s best form of defence. These are classic ploys for making you doubt yourself. Unless you are a habitually jealous person, you need to trust your gut.
9- He avoids intimacy with you:
Separate from his sexual behavior, if you notice that he avoids intimate gestures with you, then that’s a big warning sign. In psychology, there’s a concept called “commitment and consistency” – when someone is committing infidelity, showing intimacy towards their girlfriend will “feel yucky” (to put it scientifically) because it’s counter to their cheating behavior.
Separate from his sexual behavior, if you notice that he avoids intimate gestures with you, then that’s a big warning sign. In psychology, there’s a concept called “commitment and consistency” – when someone is committing infidelity, showing intimacy towards their girlfriend will “feel yucky” (to put it scientifically) because it’s counter to their cheating behavior.
Unless he’s a really good actor or a sociopath, it will be hard for him to do intimate gestures with you (intimate kissing, holding hands, being close to you, having ‘real’, deep, open conversations, etc.)
10- Change in Appearance:
Out of no where he’ll start to buy nicer clothes, except he never wears them around you. This is a huge indicator of a cheating boyfriend. He’s definitely dressing to impress, just not for you.
Out of no where he’ll start to buy nicer clothes, except he never wears them around you. This is a huge indicator of a cheating boyfriend. He’s definitely dressing to impress, just not for you.
Cheating men start taking much better care of themselves and take a lot of pride in their appearance. He's suddenly pressing his clothes, coifing his hair and shaving daily when he didn't before, especially when leaving the house without you.
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