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Sunday, 4 March 2018

She died falling in love too early her story


This is a true life story of  a girl who was romantically active at 11 years of age by 12 she has dated 7 guys which increase the probability of her death by 10% because multiple dating and sleeping with them all as lead her to another path of tragedy such as exposure to various kinds of sexual diseases, life endangerment, several heart break which can lead to heart related problems in her adult life and other unforseen events just that act of behaviour(abortion for example).



By the time she was 14 she is so addicted to sex that she find it difficult to stop it. At age 18 she was so worthless that guys only used her as sexual tools to satisfy their urge none of the guys who slept with her loves her because guys always believe if you kiss, romance or have sex with them you will surely do it with another guy but if you don’t they love you the more but pretend not to using all kinds of words for them to sleep with you if you disagree despite all their sweet talks, gift and lies they regard you as wife material. 

Guys don't like sharing their wife to be with any man knowing fully well they are morally upright except the  pervert ones, at 24 she had two kids out of wedlock struggling to care for them yet she debased more into her rotten life. 

She lost one of her beautiful child due to carelessness she went out with a man forgotten that she left her child  inside a taxi she hired which was locked, the  girl died of suffocation while she was enjoying making love.

That incident brought her deep sorrow she was down for days for two years she didn't make love with any man nor lived a life of moral corruption, showing that every human have it in them to act right most does, when tragedy strikes which begs the question why?

Some loves to learn in the hard way, by the time she clocked 32 years she was unable to give birth due to excessive morning after pills(after s€x preventive pregnancy pills) and abortive drugs she has used for years in her system which have damaged her womb cutting off her chance to conceive again forever except miracle of course. 

She was so down with pain, an excruciating pain all hope lost she doesn't know the father of her only child that compounds her headache, then age 38.

 Has a school dropped out not listening to her parents but pursue her ferocious desires for pleasure she was jobless,  lost contact with her parents and two siblings they cut her off from the family tree due to her stubbornness and pleasure seeking behaviour over family bond. 

Managing to survive with her child she was heavily clothe with guilt, frustration and regret.
She swum in her own pain drank her own tears in agony of wasted life, she lost all.

She was in the kitchen preparing meal for her only child then she was 39 her child was fifteen (she already took after her mother hmmmm as expected gene can't lie)
Unexpectedly she was struck with heart attack her nemesis catching up with her such is life well she survived the attack.There is too much burden in her heart leading to coronal thrombosis. 

Six years later she experienced a serious heart attack she was age 45 the daughter 21 at that time - - - she is so engrossed in her mother's pleasure seeking life- - -, on her dying state she  whispered faintly to her beloved daughter don't walk on my path you might end up like me please change your ways before your lifestyle hunt you back like me.

Every choice we take is equal to life and death when we act on it influenced by time, chance and causality, directly or indirectly unknown to us.--- Enakpodia famous 


Shortly after she died living her only child alone in the world. Her daughter wept deeply in sorrow, since that incident she corrected  her ways live happily with her beloved husband and wonderful children (three kids), till this very moment she heed to her mother's advice and turn around from her Promiscuous life thereby preventing future tragedy in which most youth today act otherwise without making the necessary changes thinking falling in love is a mere fun is much more than that especially at the wrong time. 

The little misbehavior now will become a mountain of addiction that is difficult to break average of 66 days uninterrupted determination which attract unhappiness, unforseen tragedy and untimely death in some cases. 
The choice is yours and yours only (true life story of Okeowo  lolade  who died  of heart attack).

WHAT YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT TEENAGE PREGNANCY 

Parenthood is the leading reason that teen girls drop out of school. More than 50% of teen mothers never graduate from high school. 

Tens of thousands of adolescents die annually of causes related to pregnancy and childbirth. In fact, these are the leading cause of death among adolescent girls, aged 15-19, globally.

Health problems are even more likely if a girl becomes pregnant too soon after reaching puberty. 

In low- and middle-income countries, the risk of maternal death for girls under age 15 is higher than for women in their twenties. 

These girls also face health risks such as obstetric fistula , and their babies face greater risks as well.

Girls who lack choices and opportunities in life, or who have limited or no access to sexual and reproductive health care, are more likely to become pregnant.

 Girls forced into child marriage – a violation of their human rights – are also more likely to become pregnant. 

In developing countries, nine out of 10 births to adolescent girls occur within a marriage or a union.

Pregnancy can lead to devastating health consequences for girls. Many adolescents are not yet physically ready for pregnancy or childbirth, and are therefore more vulnerable to complications.

 Additionally, adolescents who become pregnant tend to be from lower-income households, and many are nutritionally depleted, increasing the risks associated with pregnancy and childbearing.

Adolescent pregnancy takes an enormous toll on a girl’s education and income-earning potential. Many girls who become pregnant are pressured or forced to drop out of school. Girls not in school are also more likely to become pregnant.

Leaving school jeopardizes a girl’s future economic prospects and excludes her from other opportunities in life. By contrast, girls who remain in school are better prepared for jobs, livelihoods and life's other transitions. 

Education also raises their status in their households and communities, and gives them more say in decisions that affect their lives. An educated girl is less likely to enter into a child marriage. 

She is also better able to delay childbearing, and is more likely to have a healthy pregnancy, with better outcomes for her future children.


Out  of 10 teen dads don’t marry the mother of their child.

A sexually active teen who doesn’t use contraceptives has a 90% chance of becoming pregnant within a year.

More than half of all mothers on welfare had their first child as a teenager. In fact, two-thirds of families begun by a young, unmarried mother are poor.

Teens had fewer babies in 2010 than in any year since the mid-1940s.

About 25% of teen moms have a 2nd child within 24 months of their first baby.

 Less than 2% of teen moms earn a college degree by age 30.




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