Flirting can take place in a club, at a party, in a store, at the library, on the dance floor, at a car wash or workplace. That is everywhere.
When a woman flirts with a man, she gives him all the signals and the opportunity for him to do the first move.
The problem is that many men don’t understand these messages and they miss the opportunity to take her on a date.
The problem is that many men don’t understand these messages and they miss the opportunity to take her on a date.
It often starts with a glance, with a short but powerful look. Eye contact is as powerful as it is effective; it allows you to connect with another person, and say much more within a split second, than you could with words. In fact, around 80% of all communication takes place at a non-verbal level, meaning the gestures you makes, the way you move your body, arms or legs, how you look, how you stand, and the way you speak.
Guys, if you want to know whether a girl likes you, then you’re going to have to pay attention, because it’s unlikely that she’s just going to come out with it and tell you. So, don’t just sit on the fence, or you could be missing out the love of your life, read these ten subtle signs that she wants to get to know you better; she might be waiting for you to make the first move…
1.Fidgeting.
Tossing her hair, twists her pinky ring, or snaps her hairband, this counts as flirtatious behavior if and only if (and these are big “ifs” and “onlys”) she maintains uninterrupted eye contact. If she keeps glancing away, she may very well be repulsed by you and wants to get away as soon as possible. She’s looking for an out. When I am attracted to someone I stumble over my words and fidget. We all get nervous.
Tossing her hair, twists her pinky ring, or snaps her hairband, this counts as flirtatious behavior if and only if (and these are big “ifs” and “onlys”) she maintains uninterrupted eye contact. If she keeps glancing away, she may very well be repulsed by you and wants to get away as soon as possible. She’s looking for an out. When I am attracted to someone I stumble over my words and fidget. We all get nervous.
2.Proximity.
If she’s trying to get close to you, she’s flirting! If she’s constantly moving away, she’s sending you a subtle signal to back off, she’s not into you that way. A woman will get closer to you in proximity . You may even get the feeling she is hovering around you or trying to eavesdrop on your conversations. She’s hoping you will notice and engage her in conversation. Most women feel it is the man’s role to make the first move. This is a woman’s way of making it obvious to a man that she wants to be approached.
If she’s trying to get close to you, she’s flirting! If she’s constantly moving away, she’s sending you a subtle signal to back off, she’s not into you that way. A woman will get closer to you in proximity . You may even get the feeling she is hovering around you or trying to eavesdrop on your conversations. She’s hoping you will notice and engage her in conversation. Most women feel it is the man’s role to make the first move. This is a woman’s way of making it obvious to a man that she wants to be approached.
When a woman “accidentally” invades your personal space by bumping into you, with a smile on her face or she does anything she can to sit as close to as possible (be it a club, work, or any other kind of space) she is inviting you to initiate contact and become more intimate. Proximity is intimate to a woman because generally women don’t let just anyone to invade their personal space.
The closer she gets the clearer the sign that she is into you.
3.Compliments & Digs.
A woman that is flirting with you will tell you words that will flatter you, such as: you are cute; she will compliment your clothes, hair, or something that you mentioned in the prior conversation. If she pays you a compliment it is clearly that she is into you and that she hopes to invite her out. If you are also interested in her, it is best to pay her a compliment too, otherwise she will think that you are self-centered.
A woman that is flirting with you will tell you words that will flatter you, such as: you are cute; she will compliment your clothes, hair, or something that you mentioned in the prior conversation. If she pays you a compliment it is clearly that she is into you and that she hopes to invite her out. If you are also interested in her, it is best to pay her a compliment too, otherwise she will think that you are self-centered.
You know how people say that loving and hating someone is pretty much the same thing. Well the same is true with compliments and insults. If she’s complimenting you a lot or giving you digs like “oh you’re a player” or “I bet you like that girl”, SHE’S FLIRTING!!
4.A smile .
This is the simplest flirt there is, and the hardest to misinterpret. If a woman smiles at you from across the room, a “slow smile” not a nervous or forced smile. This means that she wants you to talk to her.
This is the simplest flirt there is, and the hardest to misinterpret. If a woman smiles at you from across the room, a “slow smile” not a nervous or forced smile. This means that she wants you to talk to her.
When a woman has an interest in you, her smile can hold your attention from across a crowded room and it is definitely one of the major signs she's flirting. Good looking woman have to work everyday to fend off guys they don’t like, so if she is smiling at you from across the room, this means that she wants you to talk to her. Engage in her flirting by returning the smile.
According to a study by Paul Ekman , there are 18 different types of smiles…
…And when any girl is flirting, she’ll probably be flashing the incredibly sincere “enjoyment smile.”
…And when any girl is flirting, she’ll probably be flashing the incredibly sincere “enjoyment smile.”
How can you recognize that smile?
When a person smiles sincerely (because they’re feeling true joy) , it causes a small muscle in their upper face to contract. This contraction causes tiny wrinkles at the corner of the eyes known as crow’s feet to form.
When a person smiles sincerely (because they’re feeling true joy) , it causes a small muscle in their upper face to contract. This contraction causes tiny wrinkles at the corner of the eyes known as crow’s feet to form.
Typically, one that people don’t consciously control that muscle, so if it contracts, it indicates true happiness (unlike a fake, forced smile).
Now:
Now:
If the girl you like smiles at you and crow’s feet appear and her cheeks visibly lift, it’s almost certainly a genuine smile… meaning she’s very likely interested in you.
And PS: Girls will laugh/smile more in general at guys who they’re interested in. If she laughs at all your jokes (even if they’re not that funny), she’s probably into you.
5.Touch.
A woman that is flirting with you will find any excuse to touch you. Maybe she will try to touch your shoulders, arm or hand wrist during the conversation, or touch your knees while stating something. If she touches you in any way, and does not withdraw her hand immediately, it is clear that she likes you.
A woman that is flirting with you will find any excuse to touch you. Maybe she will try to touch your shoulders, arm or hand wrist during the conversation, or touch your knees while stating something. If she touches you in any way, and does not withdraw her hand immediately, it is clear that she likes you.
Lightly touching you while talking is a BIG SIGN!!! If I find several ways to slightly touch you or get close, I’m into you. BUT if I freely and comfortable touch you multiple times throughout our conversation, I see you as a “friend” or “non-threatening”. Not a flirting sign. The slight differences in flirty touch vs. friend touch are so discrete, it’s hard for many men to tell the difference. But once you can tell the difference between both, you’ll know exactly when to make your move in a way that gets her sooooo relieved when you finally do!
6.She Gives You More Intense Eye Contact.
Intensely holding eye contact is a surprisingly intimate action, and is one of the most commonly missed flirting signs.
…And in fact, a study conducted in 1989 s howed that prolonged eye contact can even make people fall in love.
Intensely holding eye contact is a surprisingly intimate action, and is one of the most commonly missed flirting signs.
…And in fact, a study conducted in 1989 s howed that prolonged eye contact can even make people fall in love.
In that study, opposite sex participants were asked to gaze into each other’s eyes for two minutes. After the two minutes, the participants stated they felt a significant increase in feelings of passion and love.
…So naturally , we seem to hold eye contact longer with people we like. Use this knowledge to your advantage:
If a girl looks at you (when she’s not already conversing with you… think in a group setting when someone else is talking) for 2-3 seconds on average, she’s very likely into you.
If a girl looks at you (when she’s not already conversing with you… think in a group setting when someone else is talking) for 2-3 seconds on average, she’s very likely into you.
Pro Tip: if you make eye contact with a stranger multiple times in one setting, you better have your best pickup line ready to approach her.
7.Preening
close-up portrait. Girl preens in the mirror.
Preening is when a girl is fixing and adjusting herself around you.
close-up portrait. Girl preens in the mirror.
Preening is when a girl is fixing and adjusting herself around you.
She wants to make herself look more attractive to you. The girl in question might be nervous and wants to make sure she looks good for you. Then again, she might know she looks good but wants to draw attention to the area she’s “fixing.”
She might adjust her shirt so that you can see her breasts more clearly.
She might adjust her dress to draw attention to her legs.
She may even take out her makeup mirror and put on more lipstick so you look at her lips.
She might adjust her dress to draw attention to her legs.
She may even take out her makeup mirror and put on more lipstick so you look at her lips.
Studies have shown that women engage in preening when they are very interested in a man. So if you see this in a girl, it is a very good sign.
8.She is very enthusiastic and her tone changes around you.
You can tell how interested a girl is by how happy and enthusiastic they seem.
A woman’s tone and pitch will rise around men they are attracted to. This is so that they appear more feminine and attractive to men.
You can tell how interested a girl is by how happy and enthusiastic they seem.
A woman’s tone and pitch will rise around men they are attracted to. This is so that they appear more feminine and attractive to men.
On the other side, a woman’s voice will deepen around people she doesn’t like. A woman’s voice also deepens when she’s angry or upset. If you hear her voice deepen, start running!
Interested women also act more enthusiastic about whatever you’re doing or talking about.
Interested women also act more enthusiastic about whatever you’re doing or talking about.
If it was some average joe she wouldn’t care, but she does care because it’s you who’s saying it.
9.Proximity Check
If a girl likes you, she’ll be more willing to come closer. Your lady might also want to sit next to you or even just near you. Personal space is a thing of the past. She seems not to mind that you are only literally a few inches away from each other when she talks to you – whether to borrow a sharpener or ask about the homework. This is when rubbing elbows and breathing on one’s neck are no longer metaphors.
If a girl likes you, she’ll be more willing to come closer. Your lady might also want to sit next to you or even just near you. Personal space is a thing of the past. She seems not to mind that you are only literally a few inches away from each other when she talks to you – whether to borrow a sharpener or ask about the homework. This is when rubbing elbows and breathing on one’s neck are no longer metaphors.
10.She turns her body towards you
The ideal position to start a conversation is either to stand side by side, or in an angle of, say, 45 degrees. Starting a conversation by placing yourself directly opposite to her can come across as too aggressive. If she likes the conversation and you start to connect, she will turn her body slowly towards you. You should also do the same, and you might end up standing or sitting directly opposite to each other. Perhaps she might also lean in a bit, which is a further sign of interest.
Standing or sitting directly opposite to each other is not only a sign of strong interest, and the fact that you connect well. It is also a way to create a barrier for other people to join the conversation.
The ideal position to start a conversation is either to stand side by side, or in an angle of, say, 45 degrees. Starting a conversation by placing yourself directly opposite to her can come across as too aggressive. If she likes the conversation and you start to connect, she will turn her body slowly towards you. You should also do the same, and you might end up standing or sitting directly opposite to each other. Perhaps she might also lean in a bit, which is a further sign of interest.
Standing or sitting directly opposite to each other is not only a sign of strong interest, and the fact that you connect well. It is also a way to create a barrier for other people to join the conversation.
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