Some guys are naturally player they are designed genetically to use ladies and dump them like restaurant rags. They enjoy the adventure of tasting several ladies with different body shapes, skin colours, and size. This guys don't care about the sacrifice they invest to get what they want. They have a natural gift of psychological twist of female heart.
They are expert female manipulator and near perfect liar that this difficult to detect by ladies. That is why they are notorious heart breaker. They come to ladies like an angel but leave like the devil after using them.
They are expert female manipulator and near perfect liar that this difficult to detect by ladies. That is why they are notorious heart breaker. They come to ladies like an angel but leave like the devil after using them.
On the other hand some guys prey on the ladies circumstances. They have a natural keen eye to know and digest the situation of their victims before they strike them with an open arm of infatuation and genuine love with expiry date, which depends on the set situation.
Also, some guys take advantage of ladies that are too emotional, psychologically unstable or easily deceive. They are like wolf in sheep clothing. They are on top of their game. While some guys have the mixture of the three stated behavioural pattern listed above.
The truth is, It is unfair for a man to break the heart of a lady who has been with him for a long time. Sometimes, a guy could tell a lady it is all over without thinking of the emotional consequences of what the woman will face afterwards.
Most times it is very hard for ladies or women to keep their emotions in check as they are high emotional being;single ladies often express their love for a man who has won over their heart. In this case, the man could decide to play on their emotional state.
Similarly, ladies are involved in acts that make men take undue advantage of them all the time. They easily fall into the trap men set for them all in the name of love, which is indeed shrouded with so much deceits, afterwards pain and grief.
Single ladies should take note of the highlighted reasons below and see if they are to blame or the men carry the blame.
The three species guys explained in the outset of this article and their sub-mixture will not hesitate to strike if the ladies display certain peculiar behaviour or are in the following conditions:
1. Wife Material or Runs Lady.
When a man is in relationship with a woman as the relationship progresses to the stage when the man asked the woman hands in marriage immediately she decline, she alter and convert the man into a player except he is highly discipline man, if not the relationship will hit the rock.
From that moment on the man will be nursing wrong feeling of deceit viewing the lady as runs girl, instead of walking away from such relationship. He will ensure he have fun with the lady especially if he had invest financially, emotionally and otherwise. Sooner or later he will dump and kick-out the lady into heartbroken trash.
When a man is in relationship with a woman as the relationship progresses to the stage when the man asked the woman hands in marriage immediately she decline, she alter and convert the man into a player except he is highly discipline man, if not the relationship will hit the rock.
From that moment on the man will be nursing wrong feeling of deceit viewing the lady as runs girl, instead of walking away from such relationship. He will ensure he have fun with the lady especially if he had invest financially, emotionally and otherwise. Sooner or later he will dump and kick-out the lady into heartbroken trash.
Ladies who fall into this category come up with lamentation that a guy was with them for some years, but later left them. Knowing fully well that they actually cause the heart break they are experiencing.
2. The Early Clocking Age
The biology of female in terms body attractiveness and womb age play a very big role for them to be highly emotional and psychological unstable when looking out for marriage mate. The state of biological ageing they are in expose them to wrong relationship.
The biology of female in terms body attractiveness and womb age play a very big role for them to be highly emotional and psychological unstable when looking out for marriage mate. The state of biological ageing they are in expose them to wrong relationship.
The earlier the better is a statement which is better than better late than never.
Such statement squeeze the ladies into an helpless situation of eagerness to marry while comparing their single state to a very much younger lady who had tight the knot of marriage already. Such mental state torment single ladies deep in their inner self.
Such statement squeeze the ladies into an helpless situation of eagerness to marry while comparing their single state to a very much younger lady who had tight the knot of marriage already. Such mental state torment single ladies deep in their inner self.
Their desperation often open the gate of wolf men who are more less not ready for marriage but prey on the lady circumstances. These guys care less in the relationship, They take advantage of the lady if she is financially stable and invest less time and emotion. They knew right from the start they will never settle down with such biological disadvantage aged ladies.
At the end they use and dump them heartless without looking back.
At the end they use and dump them heartless without looking back.
However, some ladies remain single due to unavoidable circumstances while others is due to their own making. Whatever the case may be it is inhuman to convert a disadvantage situation of single ladies into a selfish advantage by some guys. It is not fair. It is far better not to commit to a relationship you know the end already instead of punishing the lady with broken soul.
3. The god of mammon(Money)
Some ladies knowingly and unknowingly label guys with money as god in the way they act or behave in the present of those guys. Some ladies are so much in love with money to an extent of lowering themselves to have it, not considering their worth or morals. These categories of ladies often fall prey of heart break in most of their relationship with guys with money who spend lavishly on them.
Some ladies knowingly and unknowingly label guys with money as god in the way they act or behave in the present of those guys. Some ladies are so much in love with money to an extent of lowering themselves to have it, not considering their worth or morals. These categories of ladies often fall prey of heart break in most of their relationship with guys with money who spend lavishly on them.
Sooner or later they become the victims of used and dump like waste materials. Yet they carry the wrong mentally that guys are evil or tagged them as heart breakers, womaniser without stating the negative role they play therein.
Money love mentality ladies often dream of marrying rich guys. Rich guys on the other hand take advantage of this mentality, spend money on them in the short run, get under their skirt in multiple times and throw them away like they never exist in the first place.
Money love mentality ladies often dream of marrying rich guys. Rich guys on the other hand take advantage of this mentality, spend money on them in the short run, get under their skirt in multiple times and throw them away like they never exist in the first place.
4. Dating Deception
There are some ladies who are ignorant of the meaning of the word "dating". They allow what is common in their environment to influence their lives and lifestyle.
The little or no knowledge about dating prompt them to date as it is common among who they hang out with so it is natural to act along.
Their lack of knowledge and moral discipline enable them to fall into guys who pretend to love them as an emotional being they love to be loved by members of the opposite sex by so doing they are entangled physically, psychologically and emotionally without knowing the end result of their actions.
There are some ladies who are ignorant of the meaning of the word "dating". They allow what is common in their environment to influence their lives and lifestyle.
The little or no knowledge about dating prompt them to date as it is common among who they hang out with so it is natural to act along.
Their lack of knowledge and moral discipline enable them to fall into guys who pretend to love them as an emotional being they love to be loved by members of the opposite sex by so doing they are entangled physically, psychologically and emotionally without knowing the end result of their actions.
They are blinded in love sweeter in the beginning bitter in the end. So, the guys they are involved with play their game nicely lured them into romantic moment that triggers soothing pleasure before they open their eyes the guy is no more gone and no where to be found even if found they are with another lady.
They are shattered emotionally that is the end result of dating for the sake of it, for fun and you receive fun in return nothing more nothing less that is the trending game now.
They are shattered emotionally that is the end result of dating for the sake of it, for fun and you receive fun in return nothing more nothing less that is the trending game now.
So the word dating is what modern guys are using to trap single ladies this days. If a lot of ladies are asked what they want, they will answer they want dating, undisciplined ladies that don't have a set goals in life.
Therefore, a man will play his love pretend card cunningly and stick to the woman for a while until he achieves his aim of use and dump.
Therefore, a man will play his love pretend card cunningly and stick to the woman for a while until he achieves his aim of use and dump.
We all know that what is currently trending in our world today is dating and not marriage.
This trend is made easy and worse like a scourge through social media like Facebook, WhatsApp, Twitter etc to crown it all the litter dating sites make it cheap for ladies to date who they so much desire thereby, twisting the essence of dating and marriage. A lady who is even ripe for marriage will still say she wants to date.
This singular act of mistake make some men also to play along with the woman to satisfy her wish and in little or no time give her what is called a hit and run relationship. They are finally used and dump as usual.
This trend is made easy and worse like a scourge through social media like Facebook, WhatsApp, Twitter etc to crown it all the litter dating sites make it cheap for ladies to date who they so much desire thereby, twisting the essence of dating and marriage. A lady who is even ripe for marriage will still say she wants to date.
This singular act of mistake make some men also to play along with the woman to satisfy her wish and in little or no time give her what is called a hit and run relationship. They are finally used and dump as usual.
5. Self-Deception Ladies thinking they are smart. Yet dumped like a fool.
There are Some ladies who deceive themselves by setting unrealistic fantasy goals for themselves. They build mighty castle in the air.
They often dictate to guys what they want and what they don't in their self deceiving attitude. They play the time delay game whereby the guy will be at their mercy. Most ladies of this nature do not give a guy either a YES or a NO answer for a long period of time. They are neutral in a mirage relationship thinking the guy is a fool.
When the man discovers the lady is neither here nor there in terms of the type of relationship she wants, the guy act like a fool until he hurts the lady emotionally use and dumps her.
There are Some ladies who deceive themselves by setting unrealistic fantasy goals for themselves. They build mighty castle in the air.
They often dictate to guys what they want and what they don't in their self deceiving attitude. They play the time delay game whereby the guy will be at their mercy. Most ladies of this nature do not give a guy either a YES or a NO answer for a long period of time. They are neutral in a mirage relationship thinking the guy is a fool.
When the man discovers the lady is neither here nor there in terms of the type of relationship she wants, the guy act like a fool until he hurts the lady emotionally use and dumps her.
What is your view on this, is ladies to blame or the guys. Share your thought in the comment section.
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