Women all over the world get abused, injured and even killed due to the myth of 'virgin bleeding or Virginal bleeding of test of virginity.' Because most people (men AND women) think that bleeding is a sign of virginity, women who don't bleed the first time have been divorced, suffered from suspicion leading to domestic violence and abuse, and even killed for honour. What an erroneous mentality and barbaric incident pampered and pioneered by so called traditions.
For you to understand why some girls, ladies and women bleed and some don't, it is very important to understand what the hymen is. The hymen is a membrane that tends to cover part of the vaginal opening (it does not always block or cover the entire vagina, as some people mistakenly think).
ONLY 37% WOMEN BLEED FIRST TIME THEY HAVE SEX!
The fact about female virginity - why most females would not bleed the first time they have sex.
1. No Hymen
A female that is not born without hymen will not bleed the first time she have sex. What will cause the bleeding during sexual intercourse is absent thereby reducing the rate of friction naturally, so there will be no bleeding. That doesn't mean the female in question has lost her virginity earlier on. Capital NO. NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE A HYMEN.
A female that is not born without hymen will not bleed the first time she have sex. What will cause the bleeding during sexual intercourse is absent thereby reducing the rate of friction naturally, so there will be no bleeding. That doesn't mean the female in question has lost her virginity earlier on. Capital NO. NOT ALL WOMEN HAVE A HYMEN.
2. Thin Hymen
If the hymen of the female is thin or small there is high chance she will not bleed. The hymen could have wear out before she had her first sexual experience. Also, due to the nature of the hymen(thin or small) the bleeding flow may reduce drastically to an extent that it might not be notice at all or it will be too little to be counted as bleeding but as a mere injury or stain in the area of the vaginal opening.
If the hymen of the female is thin or small there is high chance she will not bleed. The hymen could have wear out before she had her first sexual experience. Also, due to the nature of the hymen(thin or small) the bleeding flow may reduce drastically to an extent that it might not be notice at all or it will be too little to be counted as bleeding but as a mere injury or stain in the area of the vaginal opening.
3. Worn Out Hymen
It is not unnatural for female hymen to wear off before the age of sexual maturity. Hymen can wear off through physical exercise, climbing a horse for a ride, during menstruation, dancing vigorously,bicycling and other activities that stretches the hymen to elastic limit. A female that have lost her hymen due to wear or tear will not experience bleeding during first time sex. That does not comprise her previous moral chastity.
It is not unnatural for female hymen to wear off before the age of sexual maturity. Hymen can wear off through physical exercise, climbing a horse for a ride, during menstruation, dancing vigorously,bicycling and other activities that stretches the hymen to elastic limit. A female that have lost her hymen due to wear or tear will not experience bleeding during first time sex. That does not comprise her previous moral chastity.
According To Medical British Journal:
At least 63% of women - will NOT bleed the first time they have sex.
At least 63% of women - will NOT bleed the first time they have sex.
4. Thick Hymen
When a female is born with a thick or strong hymen. The chances of bleeding during first sexual intercourse is very much reduce or very low. The reason is that, the hymen could withstand wear and tear during the process of vaginal sex, that is, the hymen can tolerate the rate of friction without bleed during sex. Although, female with thick or strong hymen are not common in the world. They are only handful of such females among us. So, thinking they are not virgin earlier on is a big mistake.
When a female is born with a thick or strong hymen. The chances of bleeding during first sexual intercourse is very much reduce or very low. The reason is that, the hymen could withstand wear and tear during the process of vaginal sex, that is, the hymen can tolerate the rate of friction without bleed during sex. Although, female with thick or strong hymen are not common in the world. They are only handful of such females among us. So, thinking they are not virgin earlier on is a big mistake.
5. The Age Factor
Age factor plays a vital role in virgin bleeding. Just as explained earlier, hymen wears away on its own with time, a 16-year old has a higher chance of bleeding than a 25-year old. By the time a girl is of or above the legal age of consent - 18, 20, 24 years of age, for example - most of her hymen is likely to have worn away on its own, meaning it is unlikely that she will bleed a lot, if at all. However, even a young girl can be physically active, have a thin or small hymen, or have no hymen at all, meaning she might not bleed during first-time sex. That is an undiluted truth unknown to millions of people earth wide most only carry ignorant mentality all about, with wrong belief on virgin bleeding.
Age factor plays a vital role in virgin bleeding. Just as explained earlier, hymen wears away on its own with time, a 16-year old has a higher chance of bleeding than a 25-year old. By the time a girl is of or above the legal age of consent - 18, 20, 24 years of age, for example - most of her hymen is likely to have worn away on its own, meaning it is unlikely that she will bleed a lot, if at all. However, even a young girl can be physically active, have a thin or small hymen, or have no hymen at all, meaning she might not bleed during first-time sex. That is an undiluted truth unknown to millions of people earth wide most only carry ignorant mentality all about, with wrong belief on virgin bleeding.
6. Vigorous Sex
In most cases, female who bleed tend to be women who are dealt with roughly during sex. If the guy forces himself inside the girl, when she isn't ready, relaxed or aroused enough(lubrication of the internal wall of the Virginal opening during sex) the man is likely to cause injury or bleeding.
In most cases, female who bleed tend to be women who are dealt with roughly during sex. If the guy forces himself inside the girl, when she isn't ready, relaxed or aroused enough(lubrication of the internal wall of the Virginal opening during sex) the man is likely to cause injury or bleeding.
The wrong notion most people think is that, it is normal for women to bleed the first time they have sex, they don't realize that this bleeding is as a result of the woman having been hurt, and not of the hymen 'breaking.' Painful first-time sex is generally because the woman is not relaxed or aroused enough, and gets hurt as a result; it is rarely ever because of the hymen breaking. Capital No.
There are certain females who have a very sensitive hymen that degenerate slowly over time, if they have sex for the first time they might bleed in multiple encounter as a result of the nature of their hymen,till the bleeding stops in the next sexual act which might be the 3rd or 7th encounter depending on the the rate of wearing off.
IN CONCLUSION
Virginal Bleeding During first time sex does not have anything to do with virginity - it has to do with the kind of hymen a girl has, and hymens differ from girl to girl naturally from birth. Research have proved that only a small 37% of females bleed when they have sex first time, while the remaining large 63% of females don't bleed when they have sex for the first time. It is the truth covered by myth.
Virginal Bleeding During first time sex does not have anything to do with virginity - it has to do with the kind of hymen a girl has, and hymens differ from girl to girl naturally from birth. Research have proved that only a small 37% of females bleed when they have sex first time, while the remaining large 63% of females don't bleed when they have sex for the first time. It is the truth covered by myth.
However, It is imperative to educate people that a girl does not necessarily have to bleed the first time she has sex - because not all girls have thick hymens, and some are born with no hymen at all - is important because it can literally save lives.
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