Pseudo-incest has become a real hit with a certain type of woman. For seemingly inexplicable reasons, a generalized obsession with father figures is pervasive among grown ladies. While this quirk may seem harmlessly kinky, it actually can foretell endless dangerous situations. This overview explores the root causes of daddy issues to provide men with a tactful approach to the issue.
What Are Daddy Issues?
Many girls grow up being spoiled like princesses by their dads. This affectionately royal treatment has daughters romanticizing their fathers at a young age. The little girls develop a competitive relationship with their mothers for dad’s attention. Sadly, this Electra Complex can remain unresolved well into adulthood.
Many girls grow up being spoiled like princesses by their dads. This affectionately royal treatment has daughters romanticizing their fathers at a young age. The little girls develop a competitive relationship with their mothers for dad’s attention. Sadly, this Electra Complex can remain unresolved well into adulthood.
The excessive fatherly attention can suddenly seem to evaporate around adolescence. This is around the stage little girls conflate affection with sexuality, so dads often back off to avoid kindling romantic associations. Unfortunately, this paternal withdrawal only creates more yearning at a time when hormones are unleashing mass confusion. Thus, teenage girls can quickly go from wanting a daddy to wanting the DAD.
Often times, they turn slutty to get the ire of their fathers, because any attention is good attention. They lure boys home to face his wrath. This is where you come in. She can easily get turned on by the power dynamics, which means your demise is merely arousal to her.
TYPES OF DADS
Deadbeat Dads
Absent fathers bring on big-time trust issues and abandonment anxieties. Women worry about desertion and doubt and wonder whether their man will walk away someday. Referred sometimes as “sperm donors,” Deadbeat Dads have much to do with women experiencing Daddy Issues.
Deadbeat Dads
Absent fathers bring on big-time trust issues and abandonment anxieties. Women worry about desertion and doubt and wonder whether their man will walk away someday. Referred sometimes as “sperm donors,” Deadbeat Dads have much to do with women experiencing Daddy Issues.
Docile Dads
A woman who grew up with a father who passively participated in her life or was uninvolved with the rearing and raising aspect may have that “I don’t need a man” mentality. Often an overachieving, workhorse, these women desire and require independence. Docile dads may bring home the bacon, but their daughters feel fried by the lack of affection afforded. Generally, these types of fathers really do care, yet their inability to express love and concern can cause Daddy Issues.
A woman who grew up with a father who passively participated in her life or was uninvolved with the rearing and raising aspect may have that “I don’t need a man” mentality. Often an overachieving, workhorse, these women desire and require independence. Docile dads may bring home the bacon, but their daughters feel fried by the lack of affection afforded. Generally, these types of fathers really do care, yet their inability to express love and concern can cause Daddy Issues.
Doting Dads
A “daddy’s girl” can do no wrong in the eyes of her father and vice versa. She is her father’s princess (though she may want to be Queen Electra). Whereas the father feels no one is good enough for his darling daughter, the daughter basically believes no man can surpass her father’s charm and charisma. Daddy girls have a special bond with their father and generally communicate often, even throughout the day. Daddy girls sometimes have Daddy Issues.
A “daddy’s girl” can do no wrong in the eyes of her father and vice versa. She is her father’s princess (though she may want to be Queen Electra). Whereas the father feels no one is good enough for his darling daughter, the daughter basically believes no man can surpass her father’s charm and charisma. Daddy girls have a special bond with their father and generally communicate often, even throughout the day. Daddy girls sometimes have Daddy Issues.
Dominating Dads
Fathers who seek to control their daughters and use fear techniques could cause Daddy Issues. Women who grew up with controlling fathers may seek a man they can dominate; the pushover type who is easily manipulated.
Fathers who seek to control their daughters and use fear techniques could cause Daddy Issues. Women who grew up with controlling fathers may seek a man they can dominate; the pushover type who is easily manipulated.
Dirty Dads
Female victims of sexual molestation from fathers (or other trusted males) may hold dirty feelings toward men. They might be sexually aggressive; practice pornographic patterns; engage in exhibitionism; believe sex equates love; or simply have major trust issues. Girls experiencing dirty dads probably have Daddy Issues.
Female victims of sexual molestation from fathers (or other trusted males) may hold dirty feelings toward men. They might be sexually aggressive; practice pornographic patterns; engage in exhibitionism; believe sex equates love; or simply have major trust issues. Girls experiencing dirty dads probably have Daddy Issues.
DADDY ISSUES BEHAVIORS:
1. SHE IS EXTREMELY CLINGY
Every woman wants care and assurance from her partner. But a girl with daddy issues wants those things in excess. Thinking every man is capable of leaving like her father did, she may be a bit too jealous and clingy to the point where she will try to hold on to a man that much harder.
1. SHE IS EXTREMELY CLINGY
Every woman wants care and assurance from her partner. But a girl with daddy issues wants those things in excess. Thinking every man is capable of leaving like her father did, she may be a bit too jealous and clingy to the point where she will try to hold on to a man that much harder.
She will need to know where you’re going at all times and will begin to feel restless and angry if you are late contacting her. This type of woman feels like she deserves your attention at all times and may throw a fit whenever you make plans without her.
2.DATING OLDER MEN EXCLUSIVELY
Daddy issues may also drive you to subconsciously seek to be adored and protected by older men. These are elements you missed from your father growing up, but you may end up unhappy as this kind of relationship is usually unbalanced. A much older man may also be domineering.
Daddy issues may also drive you to subconsciously seek to be adored and protected by older men. These are elements you missed from your father growing up, but you may end up unhappy as this kind of relationship is usually unbalanced. A much older man may also be domineering.
3.SHE IS A SERIAL DATER
A woman with daddy issues can’t remain single very long because she’s constantly looking for the attention of a man to fill her father’s shoes. She moves from boyfriend to boyfriend because being alone is her greatest fear. Unfortunately, a woman like this will only attract the type of men that are only interested in sex and will disappoint her, leaving her in a constant cycle of emptiness.
A woman with daddy issues can’t remain single very long because she’s constantly looking for the attention of a man to fill her father’s shoes. She moves from boyfriend to boyfriend because being alone is her greatest fear. Unfortunately, a woman like this will only attract the type of men that are only interested in sex and will disappoint her, leaving her in a constant cycle of emptiness.
4 . CONFUSED EXPECTATIONS
For women who grew up without a father’s participation, the role of a man in a relationship or at home becomes confusing. This may play out in the form of you constantly seeking out men who are emotionally unavailable or ruining relationships by constantly sending mixed signals to the men in your life.
For women who grew up without a father’s participation, the role of a man in a relationship or at home becomes confusing. This may play out in the form of you constantly seeking out men who are emotionally unavailable or ruining relationships by constantly sending mixed signals to the men in your life.
5. SHE CONSTANTLY QUESTION YOUR FEELINGS FOR HER
Due to previous disappointments and painful experiences with men and/or her father, a woman with daddy issues is a psychologically unstable individual who’s grown up expecting the worst from men. This type of woman needs constant reassurance that you are still there and haven’t dumped her.
Due to previous disappointments and painful experiences with men and/or her father, a woman with daddy issues is a psychologically unstable individual who’s grown up expecting the worst from men. This type of woman needs constant reassurance that you are still there and haven’t dumped her.
She has low self-esteem, has great difficulty trusting men and seeks frequent reassurance of love or affection. She gets emotionally attached very early on, demands to analyze everything about your relationship and if she doesn’t see you wearing the shirt she bought you two weeks ago, she’ll think that you don’t care about her anymore.
6.EXTREMELY MISTRUSTFUL
A woman abandoned by her father as a child will grow up with serious trust issues. In a relationship she is likely to be overly jealous, clingy and overprotective of her love interest because she is subconsciously afraid that like her father, he will leave. Even when a relationship isn’t healthy, this woman will hold on tightly and when the man feels smothered and finally leaves her, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy and a vicious cycle.
A woman abandoned by her father as a child will grow up with serious trust issues. In a relationship she is likely to be overly jealous, clingy and overprotective of her love interest because she is subconsciously afraid that like her father, he will leave. Even when a relationship isn’t healthy, this woman will hold on tightly and when the man feels smothered and finally leaves her, it becomes a self-fulfilling prophesy and a vicious cycle.
7. OFTEN THEY DON'T DATE ANYONE THEIR DAD DIDN'T APPROVE OF
You might not get along with dad all the time, but you respect his opinion. Sometimes he'll randomly blurt out things at the dinner table, like, "That guy Mike is bad news. I think he should just be your friend." I don't know what it's called. But dads have this superpower where they can look right through people and immediately know if they are Good or Evil. Science should do a study on why dads know everything. It is creepy.
You might not get along with dad all the time, but you respect his opinion. Sometimes he'll randomly blurt out things at the dinner table, like, "That guy Mike is bad news. I think he should just be your friend." I don't know what it's called. But dads have this superpower where they can look right through people and immediately know if they are Good or Evil. Science should do a study on why dads know everything. It is creepy.
8. SHE IS DELUSIONAL AND OVER-CONFIDENT.
Not all daddy issues result in self-loathing; some, in fact, lead to an overblown sense of self. Over -fathering—things like being called a “princess” every day for the first 18 years of life—can render a girl into a deluded brat with entitlement issues or, worse, a talentless twit who thinks she’s on the verge of being discovered. The next time a girl brags about not being able to cook, fails to thank you for a kind gesture, or doesn’t apologize for being late, it’s probably because “daddy’s little girl” never was taught those behaviors aren’t okay.
Not all daddy issues result in self-loathing; some, in fact, lead to an overblown sense of self. Over -fathering—things like being called a “princess” every day for the first 18 years of life—can render a girl into a deluded brat with entitlement issues or, worse, a talentless twit who thinks she’s on the verge of being discovered. The next time a girl brags about not being able to cook, fails to thank you for a kind gesture, or doesn’t apologize for being late, it’s probably because “daddy’s little girl” never was taught those behaviors aren’t okay.
9. EXCESSIVE FLIRTATION
A woman’s crave for male attention can partly be due to that which was not provided by her father. Resultantly, excessive flirtation may be one way a woman copes with her Daddy Issues. While many women flirt, when this behavior becomes intense, aggressive, and excessive, there is usually an underlying reason. Some women flirt simply because they are interested in the man. But when a women’s flirting is habitual and continual with any man, regardless of interest level, this behavior could be attributed to Daddy Issues.
A woman’s crave for male attention can partly be due to that which was not provided by her father. Resultantly, excessive flirtation may be one way a woman copes with her Daddy Issues. While many women flirt, when this behavior becomes intense, aggressive, and excessive, there is usually an underlying reason. Some women flirt simply because they are interested in the man. But when a women’s flirting is habitual and continual with any man, regardless of interest level, this behavior could be attributed to Daddy Issues.
10.EMOTIONAL HANG-UPS
Hurtful memories, shattered dreams, disappointments, betrayal, embarrassments, and abuse comprise emotional hang-ups. This behavior is pretty tricky because emotions can be complicated and misunderstood, especially when gestures and expressions contrast what is said and done. Women with Daddy Issues may suppress emotional hang-ups, causing confusion in their romantic relationships because their mates may feel shut-out.
Hurtful memories, shattered dreams, disappointments, betrayal, embarrassments, and abuse comprise emotional hang-ups. This behavior is pretty tricky because emotions can be complicated and misunderstood, especially when gestures and expressions contrast what is said and done. Women with Daddy Issues may suppress emotional hang-ups, causing confusion in their romantic relationships because their mates may feel shut-out.
SOLUTIONS:
Daddy Issues must be understood and recognized. Mates must maintain honest and open communication. Though resolving methods are similar for both sexes, there are a few strategies that differ.
Daddy Issues must be understood and recognized. Mates must maintain honest and open communication. Though resolving methods are similar for both sexes, there are a few strategies that differ.
Men:
In clingy situations, maintain a separate social life from your mate. (Encourage and support your mate to have the same)
In clingy situations, maintain a separate social life from your mate. (Encourage and support your mate to have the same)
Do not place all the blame on the woman. (Everyone must be accountable, both men and women).
Show and tell your mate you are interested in getting to know her mind and not just her body. (So the woman won’t feel the need to be promiscuous).
Confront the behavior. (The attention given may offset the attention sought).
Continually provide the 3 A’s: Attention, Appreciation, and Affection.
Continually provide the 3 A’s: Attention, Appreciation, and Affection.
Women:
Fully forgive your father.
Develop a real relationship with your father.
Fully forgive your father.
Develop a real relationship with your father.
Do not compare your mate to your father (unless it is complimentary).
Maintain a separate social life (to avoid clinginess).
Trust, appreciate, and respect your mate.
Essentially, a woman’s relationship with her father will impact her romantic relationships. If a father failed to provide love and affection to his daughter, she may become bitter towards men and expect only the worse from them; not to mention exhibit those behaviors described. Unresolved Daddy Issues may prevent a woman from having a meaningful and lasting relationship with a spouse or boyfriend.
In reality, most women experience some type of Daddy Issues.
Essentially, a woman’s relationship with her father will impact her romantic relationships. If a father failed to provide love and affection to his daughter, she may become bitter towards men and expect only the worse from them; not to mention exhibit those behaviors described. Unresolved Daddy Issues may prevent a woman from having a meaningful and lasting relationship with a spouse or boyfriend.
In reality, most women experience some type of Daddy Issues.
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